- Few things go as planned on the morning of the wedding. Don't attempt too much.
- Hair and make-up always takes much longer than planned. Allow extra time.
- Eliminate variables, like traveling long distances. Get ready as close to the ceremony location as possible. I always suggest a place no more than 10 minutes away.
- Take the pressure off of yourself, give your bridesmaids or friends jobs to do. Even go so far as to appoint a trusted friend, who has the same taste as you, to make decisions during the course of the day. Have the florist or caterer talk with your friend, so you can stay cool and unfazed.
- Decide whether you'll do formal portraits before (bride anxious, groom relaxed) or after (bride relaxed, groom anxious) the ceremony. It's a trade-off. Portraits should be done in a spot not visible by guests. The pictures will go very quickly, if you limit the possible distractions.
- Don't hesitate to find the photographer during the party to shoot favorite people or meaningful groups in candid situations.
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